Learn About The Art Of Flirting

By Brett Vaughan


Flirting is known to be a helpful skill that some people have while some have to acquire it through practice in order to master it. The basic rule of learning the art of flirting is overcoming the fear of strangers whereby one assumes that every stranger is dangerous. Instead, people should take advantage of the anonymity of flirting with a stranger or any random person.

For people who are not comfortable with the idea of approaching people confidently, one has to practice this art by trying as much as possible to approach random people and try to make a conversation. This way, one prepares themselves for meeting the right person because there is no damage done when one makes the fool out of themselves since one may probably never meet this person again.

As they say, practice makes perfect and therefore, one gets better at this art the more they practice it as they get to learn their best skills and how to apply them and how to take rejections without damaging their ego. After becoming more comfortable with flirting with strangers it may be the right time to move to semi-strangers just to gather enough confidence.

Usually some people may appear intimidating and as a result, people are cautious of approaching them for fear of rejection; what most people do not know is that they are likely to also be interested in them but are just waiting for someone to approach them. However, this is usually easier for people used in exchanging phone number and saliva as they are confident enough to know that there are some people out there who are interested in them.

More often than not, using the eyes is usually the first step in flirting, then the mouth and a little bit of some coyness in the case of women. The signs used by men and women differ as there are those used by women by may seem lame when used by men. For instance, women are allowed to act coy while men are expected to be confident; moreover, women have also evolved in the sense that they also approach men.

There usually is no right place for this as it can be done anywhere, all one needs to know is be able to take hints and read signals. For instance, a blink, a smile, or shyness may be a signal hinting to you that someone want you to approach them. However, being over flirtatious may be off-putting as one may seem easy and creepy especially if it is a lady does it.

This art takes a cycle whereby one starts by hinting their target with eye gestures, then a smile accompanied with body language which should be an indication that it is the right time to go t the target. In addition to this, being able to ignite a conversation is critical as having a conversation that is flowing makes the time enjoyable giving room to make an advance to break the touch barrier.

There are certain rules of the game that one should consider for a successful flirting moment and still make it interesting. As hard as it might be, leaving when the conversation gets juicy is the best move to make if you are anticipating for a second date. This is because you will leave them at a good note and at a suspense whereby they would like to meet again and continue from where you left.




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