We live in a world that is swimming with unlimited amounts of choice. Therefore, it's even more important for you to cherish the people in your life who go to battle for you day in and day out. This commitment is one of the rarest things of all.
We are so afraid to commit because we don't want to put ourselves on the line and screw it up. We don't want to make ourselves look stupid and do the wrong thing.
So instead of actually making a decision about things, we live in that world of choice and never end up really making a decision.
All of these options create confusion and chaos in our mind and it becomes a paralysis in of itself.
This makes it so rare to come across someone who is going hard for their dreams or for other people.
They don't want to get hurt.
They don't want to do the wrong thing. They don't want to make a fool of themselves in front of other people.
So they play it safe...and by doing that...
They of course avoid getting really hurt...
But kill everything amazing they could experience or be in the process or really diving into something fully. Sure they don't have to face the cuts and scrapes of failure, but they never get to feel elated when they finally do win.
And for many, by the time they realize that they had been living in this story, it is far too late.
So you have to truly go for it. You have to put forward your best effort and really take a dive into your dream.
Because if you don't, you will spend the rest of your life regretting the fact that you never actually took the chances you were meant to take.
And if it does finally work out for you, you get to experience what it's like to have truly believed in something and really gone for it.
And if you actually learn that lesson, it will take you farther than you could imagine.
We are so afraid to commit because we don't want to put ourselves on the line and screw it up. We don't want to make ourselves look stupid and do the wrong thing.
So instead of actually making a decision about things, we live in that world of choice and never end up really making a decision.
All of these options create confusion and chaos in our mind and it becomes a paralysis in of itself.
This makes it so rare to come across someone who is going hard for their dreams or for other people.
They don't want to get hurt.
They don't want to do the wrong thing. They don't want to make a fool of themselves in front of other people.
So they play it safe...and by doing that...
They of course avoid getting really hurt...
But kill everything amazing they could experience or be in the process or really diving into something fully. Sure they don't have to face the cuts and scrapes of failure, but they never get to feel elated when they finally do win.
And for many, by the time they realize that they had been living in this story, it is far too late.
So you have to truly go for it. You have to put forward your best effort and really take a dive into your dream.
Because if you don't, you will spend the rest of your life regretting the fact that you never actually took the chances you were meant to take.
And if it does finally work out for you, you get to experience what it's like to have truly believed in something and really gone for it.
And if you actually learn that lesson, it will take you farther than you could imagine.
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